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Me, baby Thomas, Jessica's photo on the cushion, hubby and Sophie sitting on the sofa

Me and Mine – July 2018

Last month, I reflected on that feeling of being in limbo between two family lives. I felt that we were crossing a bridge across a great chasm. On one side…

A cup of caterpillars (left) and a butterfly (right)

From caterpillars to butterflies – watching nature in action

Sophie was recently sent a butterfly growing kit by my friend Mel. She thought that Sophie would enjoy watching the caterpillars transform into butterflies and that releasing them would be…

A double rainbow over houses - "#365daysofgratitude"

#365daysofgratitude – Week 30

For the last two years, I have taken part in a daily gratitude challenge – sharing one photo a day on Instagram of something I am grateful for. It’s taught…

The word "Peanut" in blue with a drawing of me holding Peanut with hubby and Sophie either side and our angel Jessica looking on

Friday Focus 27/07/18 – Welcoming Peanut to the world

Our little Peanut has now arrived into the world and we have been blessed with a baby boy. Baby Thomas was born at home late last night, weighing in at 5lb…

Sophie looking at the water wheel in the Garden of Time at Iver Environment Centre

Exploring the gardens at Iver Environment Centre

Iver Environment Centre has been on my list of places to visit for some time. We frequently pass it on the way to Uxbridge. I’ve seen various activities advertised during…

Jessica on Daddy's back, giving him a big cuddle

Grieving dads matter too

So much of what I read about child bereavement focuses on grieving mothers. I read things like “there is no pain greater than that of a grieving mother” and while…

A drawing of me holding a placard reading "Vote for me. Little Hearts, Big Love. #BiBs2018"

Why I’d love a nomination in this year’s BiBs awards

Nominations have now opened for this year’s Brilliance in Blogging (BiBs) awards. A couple of years ago, my blog was shortlisted in the Family category of the BiBs. It’s always…

A babygro, hat, bootees and Scrabble letters spelling out "thirty six weeks"

Pregnancy after child loss – 36 weeks

We’ve been preparing a little more for Peanut’s imminent arrival over the last couple of weeks. There’s now space in our bedroom for the Moses basket and we’ve been busy…

A double rainbow over houses - "#365daysofgratitude"

#365daysofgratitude – Week 29

For the last two years, I have taken part in a daily gratitude challenge – sharing one photo a day on Instagram of something I am grateful for. It’s taught…

Full - this week's word of the week

Friday Focus 20/07/2018 – Appointments, milestones and emotional moments

It’s been a week full of appointments, milestone moments, events and emotions. There’s been lots of last moments as we approach the end of term for Sophie. We’ve also been…