Me and Mine – November 2017

November has been a funny month. It’s been full of ups and downs – lots of preparing to go into hospital for Jessica’s surgery; the disappointment of being cancelled and then having to go through the whole process again. We’ve had two dates for surgery this month: 8th November and 21st November. The first one was cancelled the day before it was due to take place; the second on the morning the surgery was due to happen. Both times were for very valid and unavoidable reasons. It’s still been a bit of a rollercoaster on the emotional front though!

 

Me, hubby, Jessica and Sophie at Langley Park - "Me and Mine - November 2017"

 

Jessica has found it quite hard to have the surgery cancelled although has readjusted to being back to normal routines and starting the countdown to surgery once again. The new surgery date is 28th December. At least we know we can enjoy the festive season and have Christmas together before stepping back on the hospital rollercoaster.

 

The last few months have been very much about making the most of family time. Having the cloud of surgery hanging over us all has made us so much more aware of how precious that time is. There’s been a new appreciation for the ordinary, everyday moments. I’m finding myself stepping back from the busyness that often comes with this time of year; consciously slowing down in order to savour the little moments. Watching my girls more closely when they play together. Trying to take in all the little details that I might otherwise miss; trying to capture the moment in my heart and hold it there forever.

 

Me, hubby, Jessica and Sophie at Langley Park

 

Having a date for a major surgery is like having a big barrier blocking my view of the weeks ahead. I can see as far as the date for the surgery and no further. Everything beyond it is unknown and potentially quite scary. My world shrinks to a few weeks. A few weeks which we will enjoy as much as we can. Our diary is looking quite empty for December and we won’t be trying to fill it as much as we usually do. As much as I love all the hustle and bustle of the festive season; it also brings with it the extra stress of trying to juggle all the different balls. This year, there will be the fun moments, the exciting adventures but they will be balanced with quiet days and time to relax.

 

Sophie, hubby, me and Jessica having snuggles on Mummy and Daddy's bed

 

This month’s Me and Mine photos sum up the last month quite well. They show the fun moments, the ordinary moments and the focus on preparing for hospital and surgery. An afternoon at Langley Park making the most of family time together; snuggles at bedtime after reading a story and the four of us together on the evening before Jessica’s surgery was due to take place.

 

Me, hubby, Sophie and Jessica on Ocean Ward

 

The hospital rollercoaster is still to come. But for now, we will focus on the festive season and time together as a family.

 

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14 Comments

  1. November 30, 2017 / 10:24 am

    It must be so stressful waiting for a surgery date and then have it be cancelled, I hope this next date goes ahead for you and everything goes smoothly. x

    • Louise
      December 5, 2017 / 9:27 am

      Thank you Madeline. Hopefully all will go well this time x

  2. November 30, 2017 / 11:02 am

    Oh gosh it must be such a difficult time for you all. I hope December is kind to you and that the surgery goes ahead this time and you all enjoy a wonderful festive season before it takes place.
    Nat.x

    • Louise
      December 5, 2017 / 9:28 am

      Thank you Nat. We’re enjoying December so far 🙂

  3. November 30, 2017 / 12:20 pm

    What a difficult time it has been for you all. I really hope you can all enjoy Christmas together and also it finally happens after Christmas x

    • Louise
      December 5, 2017 / 9:29 am

      Thank you Laura. We’ll certainly be doing our best to enjoy Christmas and hopefully it will be third time lucky with the surgery x

  4. November 30, 2017 / 8:53 pm

    Rollercoaster is a bit of an understatement I suspect – and I really feel for you, having to build everyone up and then have it be postponed is draining, even when it was for the very best of reasons. Fingers crossed and all our prayers for a wonderful Christmas and then a straightforward surgery on 28th x

    • Louise
      December 5, 2017 / 9:30 am

      Thank you so much Carie. It has been quite draining but it is nice to be able to enjoy the run-up to Christmas and we’re certainly doing our best to enjoy it x

  5. December 4, 2017 / 1:10 pm

    I’m glad you managed to find some moments of joy #meandmineproject

    • Louise
      December 5, 2017 / 9:39 am

      Thank you 🙂

  6. December 6, 2017 / 7:05 pm

    It must be so disheartening for Jessica to have it cancelled again after all the build up (and for you too). I really hope you all have a wonderful, relaxing Christmas together Louise. It’s good that you’ll get Christmas in before the surgery, and hopefully all the festivities can do a bit to take your mind off it xxx

    • Louise
      December 8, 2017 / 11:11 am

      Thank you Katy – they’re certainly helping keep my mind off it all at the moment x

  7. December 13, 2017 / 10:45 am

    I am sorry to hear that so frustrating to be cancelled. I hope you have a lovely relaxing christmas together. These are darling snuggling family snaps this month. Merry Christmas! #meandmineproject

    • Louise
      December 18, 2017 / 10:18 am

      Thank you Jenny, hope you have a lovely Christmas too 🙂

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