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Sophie and Jessica wearing winter coats and hats, standing in front of a tree hugging each other

Grief and life after Jessica: a milestone moment

When I look at my life as a parent, it is very sharply divided into two. Life when Jessica was here with us, and life after losing Jessica. There is…

The word 'reorganising' in swirly pink, purple, blue and yellow bubble writing

Friday Focus 06/01/2023 – Reorganising

We’ve been reorganising things at home this week. It’s been partly about making room for the Christmas presents but also planning ahead with various changes that will need to happen…

Me (holding Thomas), hubby and Sophie (holding a photo of Jessica) standing in front of a Christmas tree

Me and Mine – December 2022

Here we are at the end of another year. Christmas and New Year is a particularly difficult time for us. I think grief feels more acute at this time of…

The word 'Christmas' in red with holly leaves either side of the dot of the 'i'

Friday Focus 30/12/2022 – Christmas

We’ve had some time away over Christmas having spent it at Coombe Mill again. It’s been good to have that time away and to be able to switch off and…

A Photoshopped picture of Jessica, Sophie and Thomas holding ice-skating penguins inside a snow globe

Merry Christmas

I’m taking a break from the blog over the Christmas period so just wanted to wish all my readers a peaceful Christmas. Sending much love to all those who find…

A Photoshopped picture of Jessica, Sophie and Thomas holding ice-skating penguins inside a snow globe

Siblings – December 2022

School has broken up for Christmas and I have two very excited people who are counting down the days and looking forward to Christmas Day. It’s a tough time of…

The word 'overstretched' drawn stretched out

Friday Focus 16/12/2022 – Overstretched

It’s been a very busy week of festive activities and trying to fit all the things I need to do around them, which has left me feeling very overstretched this…

The word 'festive' in red with a sprig of holly above the dot of the 'i'

Friday Focus 09/12/22 – Festive

The Christmas cards have been written, most of the presents are now wrapped and we’ve been enjoying the first panto trip of the festive season, lunch with Father Christmas, a…

The word Advent drawn with the 'd' and 't' as Advent candles

Friday Focus 02/12/2022 – Advent

It’s the start of Advent and the countdown to Christmas. I’m not quite as organised as I would have liked to have been at this point but I’ve bought most…

Me (holding the photo cushion with Jessica's photo), Thomas, Daddy and Sophie sitting on the sofa together

Me and Mine – November 2022

I wasn’t sure I was going to manage to get a family photo for November. It’s been a busy month with hubby working away on events, Sophie and Thomas having…