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Friday Focus 27/01/2023 – Productive

I’ve had quite a productive week this week, catching up on various jobs on the to-do list. Some of them were things that I’ve been putting off for a while.…

Thomas snuggled up to Sophie under a blanket on the sofa with a photo cushion of Thomas, Jessica and Sophie wearing fairytale costumes next to them

Siblings – January 2023

It’s very weird to think that Sophie and Thomas have now had more time together than Sophie and Jessica did. Another one of those tough milestones that come with life…

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Friday Focus 20/01/2023 – Preoccupied

I’ve been quite preoccupied this week with various things going on that are taking up a fair amount of headspace. Nothing bad, just a couple of curveballs that have come…

The word 'milestone' with a doodle of Jessica and Sophie holding hands above the 'es' and a doodle of Sophie and Thomas holding hands above the 'on'

Friday Focus 13/01/2023 – Milestone

Today is a milestone moment on our grief journey as Thomas reaches the exact age Sophie was when Jessica died. From now on, Sophie and Thomas will have had more…

Sophie and Jessica wearing winter coats and hats, standing in front of a tree hugging each other

Grief and life after Jessica: a milestone moment

When I look at my life as a parent, it is very sharply divided into two. Life when Jessica was here with us, and life after losing Jessica. There is…

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Friday Focus 06/01/2023 – Reorganising

We’ve been reorganising things at home this week. It’s been partly about making room for the Christmas presents but also planning ahead with various changes that will need to happen…

Me (holding Thomas), hubby and Sophie (holding a photo of Jessica) standing in front of a Christmas tree

Me and Mine – December 2022

Here we are at the end of another year. Christmas and New Year is a particularly difficult time for us. I think grief feels more acute at this time of…

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Friday Focus 30/12/2022 – Christmas

We’ve had some time away over Christmas having spent it at Coombe Mill again. It’s been good to have that time away and to be able to switch off and…

A Photoshopped picture of Jessica, Sophie and Thomas holding ice-skating penguins inside a snow globe

Merry Christmas

I’m taking a break from the blog over the Christmas period so just wanted to wish all my readers a peaceful Christmas. Sending much love to all those who find…

A Photoshopped picture of Jessica, Sophie and Thomas holding ice-skating penguins inside a snow globe

Siblings – December 2022

School has broken up for Christmas and I have two very excited people who are counting down the days and looking forward to Christmas Day. It’s a tough time of…