In the beginning

There were many moments during my pregnancy with Jessica that I hardly dared hope I’d get to hold her living breathing form in my arms, let alone have the chance to breastfeed her. Hearing her cry as she entered the world was one of the most overwhelmingly joyous moments of my whole life. A fleeting moment of her being laid on my chest and the briefest of cuddles before she was whisked off to the neonatal unit. It felt like a very long time before I was able to go and see her there although it was only really a couple of hours.

In the beginning - Little Hearts, Big LoveSurrounded by the beeping of the machines, my hospital bed squeezed into the intensive care unit and finally the chance to hold my beautiful girl for more than a moment. She was already covered in tubes and wires but we were able to cuddle up skin to skin and as I gently guided her towards my breast, she nuzzled against it and suckled very briefly. In amongst it all, I tried to take in the surgeon explaining the surgery that Jessica was about to have, my husband signed the consent form and the team began the process of arranging for Jessica to be transferred to the paediatric intensive care unit in the neighbouring hospital but for the moment, we were together, snuggled up and no matter what the future held, I would always have the memory of at least one moment of feeding her.

In the beginning - Little Hearts, Big LoveWe were blessed with many more though as Jessica got through her first heart surgery at eight hours old and another at a week old. It was a few days before we were able to hold her again and at ten days old, Jessica finally was able to breastfeed again. I had been expressing regularly in the meantime but once Jessica had a taste of mummy milk directly from the breast, there was no stopping her! We tried exclusive breast feeding for a few days but her heart condition meant that she tired quickly and needed extra calories so she had top-ups of a special high-calorie formula milk but being able to partially breastfeed her was wonderful.

In the beginning - Little Hearts, Big LoveFast-forward a couple of years to baby Sophie’s arrival into the world and what a different experience! Giving birth to her at home in a birthing pool and being able to snuggle up with her in my own bed afterwards was blissful. I was an experienced mum this time round and expected breastfeeding Sophie to be straightforward. It was a shock when I struggled with getting her to latch well and ended up with very sore and cracked nipples. Thankfully I had amazing support from two midwife friends who took the time to help support me with feeding (and ruled out any tongue-tie) and after a week, Sophie was finally feeding well and comfortably. This time round, there were no medical problems affecting weight gain and Sophie thrived on just mummy milk until she was ready for her first taste of solids.

In the beginning - Little Hearts, Big Love

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8 thoughts on “In the beginning

  1. Mummy Tries

    Well done for at least trying with Jessica, after such a traumatic entrance into the world! So pleased it all worked out second time with Sophie. The first photo of you and your hubby is so adorable 🙂 #bfingdiaries

    1. liquoriceuk

      Thank you – Jessica was partially breastfed until she was 17 months old although we had quite a bumpy ride of it due to her surgeries and I did lots of expressing. Will be sharing some of those experiences in future posts. After the initial struggle, feeding Sophie has been much easier! The first photo is one of my favourites – it was such a precious moment and we were both quite emotional

  2. Zena's Suitcase (@zenas_suitcase)

    I can’t imagine how difficult it would have been first time around, you did so well. I hope she is doing well now. It’s lovely you got such a different experience second time round, it sounds perfect. Thanks so much for sharing with #BFingDiaries

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  5. Mel

    You did so well even thinking about breastfeeding when everything was happening with Jessica. You are suh an inspiration and a great mummy! xxx


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